Monday, August 27, 2012

One Day at A Time Blog # 7

August 31, 2012

Recent Skype Chat  with a Classmate

This will be a very short Blog. I just want to share my enthusiam when I was able to chat with a clasmate last night on Skype. Elaine Cook and her husband were on Sky[e last night and we had a very good time sharing things.

Elaine showed us her beautiful quilts on the web cam and they were very beautiful. We talked about many things and she was so encouraging with her comments about my Bloga.....Thanks Elaine. Carlton, her husband shared about his fishing that brought back past memories of fishing in my early life.That's all for now just wanted to post this comment.

Dr Dave

Saturday, August 18, 2012

One Day at a Time .... Blog # 6

Saturday August 18, 2012


Short Story:
Sign Painting and Brother's Broken Bones

Keep in mind as I write these articles they are events that pop up in my RT*and probably have no other signicantes to anyone except those involved......it is a true and interesting story.

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I will now take you back to Sac City one summer day when I got a sign painting job to paint a street banner promoting a special event in the small town East of Sac called Lytton. It was an event called Lytton Gala Days. Don't ask me how I remember that...it comes from my * "remembering technique"(RT). The canvas banner would stretch across their main street in the middle of the business district. I was approximately 3 feet high and maybe 20 to 35 feet long.
I had stretched it out in the backyard on the grass. I finished laying out the letters "Lytton Gala Days" across the length of the Banner. I had just started painting the letters when my mother came running out of the backdoor of our house latterly shouting "My Gosh, Dave, they called from Lake City and said Jim has broken his arm." My RT* is kicking in and I must give you some background here.
Editor's Note:      (this is a long but interesting story)
....This probably won't mean anything to anyone except to brother Jim, but it is an interesting story and "Amazing" that I am able to use my RT*   I remembered a lot of details from this story so hang with me please! ....
My brother, Jim, 8 years younger than me. became a very good athlete. I didn't excel in any sport, but I played them all. I remember making a commitment to myself to to what I could he help Jim excel in as many sports as possible. As one example, teaching him baseball techniques I started playing baseball with him in our basement with a tennis ball. I had an old catcher’s glove and would have Jim pitch the tennis ball as fast and as hard as he could to me from one end of the basement room to the other for hours at a time.
We would trade places and I would itch and Jim would be the catcher. Eventually I was throwing as hard as I could to him. Jim got so he could stop anything I threw and many times catch the thrown ball also. I worked with him in football and track events also.  In football Jim went on to become a very good quarterback, in track a good pole vaulter and in baseball he became an all star player on his little league team.
Jim's strongest desire was baseball in high school. He chose not to participate in any other sport except baseball in high school. This was fine except the high school football coach was constantly trying to talk Jim into playing on the high school football team.
After many attempts, the coach talked him into going out for football that fall. He told him that he would play Jim in positions that he would not get hurt because Jim was looking forward to the upcoming baseball season. The evening of Jim's last football game of the season my friend, Terry and I were having a Pepsi in the Buena Vista snack shop. Jim's football game was played at the BV football field. The game was against Storm Lake high school. Terry and I had been watching the first half of the football game and decided, at half time to walk to the snack shop for a drink. I was very close to the football stadium. as we left I noticed on the game clock we had about 15 minutes befor the second half would begin.
We were sitting in the snack shop when someone came running in and said, "Dave, you need to get over to the football field, something happened to your brother."
As we ran back to the football field, I glanced up and saw that the game clock was stopped about 2 minutes into the 3rd quarter. We saw a bunch of people in a group with an ambulance in the field. As we entered the stadium the ambulance was leaving and I saw Jim and my mother in the ambulance. Jim had a big grin on his face and was waving at me.
We immediately went to our car and followed the ambulance to the hospital. When we arrived we were directed to the floor where Jim was being examined by a Doctor Shay. Dr. Shay was a somewhat strange but caring doctor. Jim expressed a great deal of pain from his broken ankle as Dr. Shay attempted to remove Jim's football stocking. Dr. Shay was trying to remove the sock by sliding it off Jim's ankle.
In a very short time Jim expressed his anger from the painful technique by loudly saying "Cut the “@$!&*$%” sock off with your scissors!"  Jim told him and said that he would buy the football team another sock.
After Jim's ankle was repaired and a metal pin place to hold one of the bones in place Jim was admitted to a hospital room. From the time he regained his consciousness from the surgery, Jim was asking when he could go home. You see, Sac City varsity football team played a game on the following Friday, four days away.  He was told to relax and wait for the doctor to release him.
Friday came and Jim asked to talk to Dr. Shay that morning. At noon he was given permission to prepare to be released. I don't know what he said to the doctor, but it must have been conversing. That evening I took Jim, on a pair of crutches to the football game. We had to park a fair distance from the field so Jim had to slowly use the crutches to maneuver to the seats.
It was a long trip back to the car after the game and Jim was pretty tired. The next morning he complained of a sore throat and to make a long story longer....he came down with mononucleosis. I remember I had to crush ice for him to suck on cause it was hard for him to swallow as he lay almost motionless for the best part of the next week recovering.
When he got better, we were told by the medical people that it was probably the best thing that could have happened to him. It have his ankle sufficent time to really heal. Had he not been down and off his feet he might have suffered complications from his over-activity.
As a result of the fractured ankle he was not able to go out for basketball that he was really looking forward to doing. (He was an exceptionally good basketball player also) As it turned out he got to play in the last two basketball games of the season. 
Next came the track season. We had purchased Jim a glass pole for his pole vaulting. He had btoken the junior high record in pole vaulting the year before. He had gone to a track meet in Lake City about 30 minutes from Sac and he was determined to do well in the pole vaulting. His foot and leg were pretty well back to normal excerpt he was still a little slow on his run.
That is the time my mother came running out of the back door screaming that Jim had broken his arm.  Actually it was his wrist. He had made two attempts to clear the starting height and missed then on third try he cleared the height but when he came down he landed on his wrist wrong and it broke.
The school didn't make any money that year on the Logan family. Jim had a broken ankle and now a broken wrist.
That really upset him because he was looking forward to the baseball season coming up next. He was in a cast and decided that he could only coach with the cast on so he coached a little league team.
* (RT) Remembering Technique








Wednesday, August 15, 2012

One Day At a Time by Dr Dave .........Blog Day (#5)

August 16, 2912

This is the BLOG DAY Blog that I plan to send out quarterly to pause and reflect about where I am with my Blogging! I will continue this blog where I left off soon so hang in there. I love to Blog because that is about all I have to keep my mind going. Here is a little story my Great grandma Austin told me that you may enjoy for this short Blog:

A Short Story Before I Continue

I want to tell you a story that my Great grandma Austin told me about people that called her "senile". Since we are all advancing in years I thought it very appropriate and fitting to tell what this 85 year old grand old lady told me when I was about 7 years old.
I remember I had asked her what the word "senile" meant, I had heard it used and remembered it.

She told me that the word "senile" was best discribed (her view) by comparing my brain of 7 to her brain of 85 years. She told me that we could compare my brain to books in a library like the Spencer library (the town where I lived of 7,000 population) She continued to say that her 85 year old brain had many more books in it. She compared her brain to the Library of Congress in Washingto D.C.(with almost every book written in the US).
She told me that when a young person 20 to 40 years old would ask her a question. she would go to her imaginary library of books in her brain and begin going through the rows and stacks of books to find the answer. Compared to me looking for an answer it took her much longer to sort through all the books in her brain and these younger people were not very patient and could not wait for her answer so they stopped and called her "senile" for the reason.

I think that is so good an explaination especially noe that I am going to be 71 in a few days and so far God has blessed me with a fairly good memory. Like another one of my classmates told me. She didn.t have altzhimers...she called her condition "Sometimers". that's what I have at times!!!! (Thanks Elaine)

Sunday, August 12, 2012

One Day at A Time Blog #4

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Monday August 13, 2012



 
Things I had to Re-orientate My Thinking About - Blog #4

When I moved to the Philippines I knew a little about some of the Philippine culture but there was a lot I would have to learn. This may appear humours to many Americans but it is very serious to Filipinos.


Eating Out
There are some things that I had to adjust to when I ate out. When eating at a restaurant or cafe or anyplace you pay when you order. This is not a customer service orientated country and if your order comes wrong or over cooked you can't send it back, because it is already paid for. McDonalds here was the only place we were able to correct an order. I had ordered a double cheeseburger. I got a piece of meat, presumably hamburger between two dried out buns. No lettuce, no condiments and no pickles. We finally attracted the attention of a server and he was very congenial after checking the receipt we had received. In about 10 minutes we got a double cheeseburger that had been sitting in the warming tray for a while. There is no consideration of priority.

In addition when you eat out the napkins you receive (If you receive any at all) are close to the size of a large sheet of toilet paper other places. There are some nicer restaurants that give you a napkin that resembles a napkin you get everywhere in the States. ( Keep in mind, I am not complaining), I am only pointing out the things that you need to adjust to here in the Philippines that are different in other countries.

You usually have to fight your way through hungry kids that are out in front of many eating places begging for food or money. Places like McDonalds and other nice eating places keep these beggars away from the front of their businesses.

The food is very seldom hot. It is warm, at best, because every place except McDonalds the orders are place in a "wait to be served" area with a number. You are given a number when you order if the food you ordered is not yet sitting in the warming rack. Many times if what you order is a difficult item they will ask you if you can wait 10 or 15 minutes. I said yes only once. I was given my french-fries and 15 minutes, after I had eaten my fries came the sandwich I was told would take 19 to 15 minutes. You learn fast the procedures here. My drink also was delivered right away and it was gone after my sandwich arrived. There are some places that have "bottomless" drinks. Those ar the best places.

I will post this article #4 and continue more later.

 
 

 
 

 
 

 

Wednesday, August 8, 2012

One Day At a Time Blog #3

Thursday August 9, 2012



Article:  08/-02/12

One Toe in Heaven

My wife had died and I had been taking care of myself since her death. I was a care giver for almost 13 years as we faced the consequences of the brain tumor. I was a bit paranoid when it came to hospitals, doctors and any medical treatments. I had gone through 3 brain surgeries and having total hip replacement during the 13 years with her.

First Wife Got Sick

My wife got sick while we were visiting my parents in March of 1982 in Saint Petersburg, Florida. My two adopted sons, my wife and I left from the airport in Des Moines, Iowa. Before leaving, we experienced very heavy fog. Our flight was delayed and eventually cancelled.

After a 5 hour delay we were able to reschedule our flight to Florida through Chicago and Atlanta,Georgia. Fortunately I was able to call and alert my parents of the flight problems. I told them that I would call them from Atlanta to tell them when we would arrive at the Tampa airport where they could meet us. Before we left Chicago we said a prayer to help reduce the anxiety we were experiencing. 

When we arrived at the Atlanta airport we prepared for the eight hour layover. I was able to keep the boys pretty well occupied watching the other people and airplanes landing and taking off. My wife appeared calm and quiet during this delay.

Finally Arrived in Florida

About 10 PM we arrived in Tampa, Florida and were met by my parents. We had left Iowa at 6 AM and arrivedin Tampa at 10 PM. Originally we were suppose to arrive in Tampa about 1 PM.
The first day after arriving we spent resting. The second day we went to the beach and enjoyed a picnic on the white sands beach. The third day we went to Busch Gardens, an amusement park close to where we were staying.

The next few days were very tramatic and stressful. My wife had an attack that caused her to have uncontrollable seizures and put her in the hospital in Saint Petersburg for the remainder of our vacation. Many times during the two week delay I spent a great deal of time in prayer....asking “Why?”

We were finally able to make flight connections back to Iowa. Iowa had been in the area of a dangerous winter snow storm. This Blizzard forced our flight to land in Saint Louis Missouri. My wife was highly medicated with Phenobarbital, an anti-seizure medication. She was in a wheelchair and very non-communicative. My two boys were at our side and stayed with me during all the negotiations through Lambert the St Louis airport. There were large groups of people mulling around tryin to find out-going flights due to the cancelation of most flights in the central United States.

Efforts Futile at First

My efforts were at first futile. My previous experience flying all over the US, I knew it was the obligation of our carrier to get us to our destination. I said a silent prayer and forced my way to our carrier’s ticket desk and explained that I had a sick wife and two small children and needed to get to Des Moines, Iowa as soon as possible. We then were scheduled on the next flight to Des Moines. 
We landed in a mild snow storm. The major blizzard had subsided after leaving upwards of 14 inches of snow on the ground.

 Returning to the motel where we had stayed and left our Toyota station wagon  when we departed to Florida we discovered, to our dismay, the station wagon was almost completely buried in snow drifts. Also the snow removal equipment had pushed snow over our car when they attempted to remove the snow from the parking lot. Another time for prayer because all I had was a pair of gloves and a leather jacket to keep warm.

 Dug Our Station Wagon out of the Snow

I physically with my two hands moved the snow away from the station wagon enough to drive out into the parking lot. We loaded the station wagon with out positions and ourselves and started the 30 minute trip to Perry, Iowa where we lived. We called my wife’s parent alerting them of our situation and they said they would also go to Perry to meet us
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We had not gone 10 minutes when there came a very loud sound from under the car. I pulled to the shoulder of the road best that I could and discovered our muffler had almost totally fallen off. I removed the muffler as best that I could and returned to finish the trip to Perry. I can describe my feeling when we pulled into the driveway at our Perry home. My wife was still very quiet and under the influence of the anti-seizure medication. I again prayed that I could help remove her from the station wagon and assist her in getting to our bedroom
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Wife’s Parents Taken to the Hospital

By the time I was able to do all that, her parents arrived. They then observed her having one of the grand mal seizures in the hallway to our bathroom. This totally disengaged them from reality and I had to take them both along with my wife and the two boys to the hospital 3 blocks away.

Moving Ahead 4 years

To make this unpleasant experience shorter, I will skip ahead 4 years. My wife had gone through 3 brain surgeries and had both hips replaced as a side effect from the steroids given to her for reduction of swelling during the second brain surgery.
There were so many times that I fell on my knees crying and asking God’s strength to sustain my own mental stress. He did and I am so grateful I recognized when it happened and thanked Him for the strength to move on.

Placed Wife in a Nursing Home

I had to place Sharon in a nursing home in February of 1995 where I ended up joining the dietary staff as a cook. I helped feed Sharon her meals and was given my meals free . I have lost track of what happened to our two boys exactly, but friends and my brother took care of them while I worked as a caregiver to my wife.
One event I will never forget was the time our pastor told me that I needed to give Sharon permission to die. I didn’t understand that at all. 

Giving Wife Permission to Die

One evening after I had finished my work cooking I went up to Sharon’s room to visit and had asked God to help me explain this thing about dying to her. I went into her room and left 3 times before she finally ask me what I was doing. I told her that we needed to talk about heaven and dying. She looked me straight in my eyes and said, “David, I think you are having more trouble with this than I am.” Praise the Lord, she already had talked to God and He had comforted her long before I realized it.

Wife went to be with God on our 29th Wedding Anniversary

On June 5, 1995 Sharon was called home by the Lord. It was our 29th wedding anniversary.
I continued cooking and serving as a caregiver to the elderly until one day I scraped the bottom of my right foot on some rough cement at the side of my small home in Perry. I thought I could care for it myself but, the fact of the matter was I had discovered I had diabetes and before I knew it I was in trouble. Diabetes was causing my toe to become infected. I was admitted to the Perry hospital where my doctor and a Podiatrist informed me I was going to lose my second toe on my right foot.

Went To the State Run Hospital in Iowa City, Iowa

I made arrangements to have my pastor drive me to Iowa City Hospital where I needed to go because of having no insurance and no money to pay on my own. 
By the time we got there, my toe was black and the foot was swelling from the accumulation of poison. The doctor intern began talking to me and preparing me to lose my entire foot from bone infection. I ask Pastor Charles to pray with me that God would intervene. He did and all I lost was my toe and some pride.
As I lay in my bed recovering in the Iowa City hospital, an assistant pastor from my son’s church where I had attended with my son came to visit me. He prayed over me and told me of a friend that had lost his leg in a motorcycle accident. He went on to write a book called: “One Leg in Heaven”. 

Came Up with the Title “One Toe In Heaven” 

I did some thinking and praying and decided I need to also write a book about my life and came up with the name “One Toe in Heaven”.

I have spent the last few years working on my book and since then have remarried to a Filipina lady and her four children. I moved to Cebu City in the Philippines in 2005 and continue writing memories of my life. I created a Blog on the Internet and regularly post new material about my past memories. It is called Dr Dave’s Memories and I entitle the Blog LILAGCS....(“Life Is Like A Grilled Cheese Sandwich”) You may visit the Blog ...just let me know and I will send you the address.








Thursday, August 2, 2012

One Day at a Time Blog (1b)

Thursday August 2, 2012

I decided to try and write an article for Guidepost about the experience I had in the vacation to Flordia where Sharon got sick, the care giving experience and my eventual loosing my toe from diebetes and the "One Toe in Heaven" book idea I had.

Wednesday, August 1, 2012

First Post - One Day At A Time (1a)

Thursday August 2, 2012

What is: One Day At A Time?

One day at a time is a blog that I had a dream about last night. I decided that I needed a my place to record my everyday thoughts and actions.

I have started listing to the Bible .... the Old Testiment first. My goal is to read (or listen)  to the entire bible. I will listen to as much each day as I can endure.

I may post more than one blog each day for I will post them when I feel I want to. This Blog will be more like a daily journal.